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Meet the women desperately seeking semen on social media – and the men eagerly volunteering their ‘natural insemination’ services. It’s a Sunday afternoon and Louise, 36, is sat at the bar of a West London hotel waiting for a man she met online. Casting her eyes upwards she finally sees him, striding purposefully towards her table.
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He nods, shyly averting his eyes as he passes Louise the room key, while retrieving something from his pocket that he slips hurriedly into her hand. Finally the man meets her eyes and his face breaking into a satisfied grin. ‘Good luck,’ he utters before turning on his heel to exit the hotel, leaving Louise and her wife with a syringe full of semen. Louise is one of thousands of people desperately seeking semen online. She and her wife Mary, 35, turned to Facebook to find a donor and discovered multiple groups that pair prospective parents with semen suppliers. The profiles are not unlike dating bios, with members sharing their ages, occupations and of course their STD status and fertility credentials. A typical donor post reads: ‘London AI or NI donor, Half English, Spanish. 5’11” dark brown hair. Fortunate to have no health problems. Never smoked or taken drugs. Somehow scored 129 on an IQ test. Recent clean STI check.’ The different acronyms stand for various fertilisation methods. These are Artificial Insemination (syringe/turkey-baster), Partial Natural Insemination (masturbating and climaxing inside the recipient) and Natural Insemination (having penetrative sex). Recipients’ posts tend to be more detailed, including wedding photos, family snaps and information about finances. A typical request from someone seeking sperm says: ‘Hi me and my wife are looking for a donor (no NI please) we don’t drink or smoke we have our own house and both work full time. We would prefer the donor to have absolutely no contact with the child very minimal updates if that’s okay. We will pay for your travel! We welcome all ethnicities. Thank you for looking or considering us!’ While lesbian couples are by far the largest recipient group, there are also plenty of single women and some heterosexual couples struggling to conceive, who take to the group to find the semen they need. ‘New here. Any donors Yorkshire area?,’ one post from a single woman reads. ‘White male (tall if possible lol) new to all this but I’m 25 and single. Very broody. Please pm me so we can sort out what each other’s expectations and wishes are.’ Confirming expectations before proceeding is vital, especially because the legalities surrounding private donations remain obscure. Factors such as the mother’s relationship status and the insemination method could land the donor with legal obligations. Fertility law specialists Natalie Gamble Associates, (NGA) explain: ‘A sperm donor who donates through sexual intercourse (sometimes called “natural insemination”) is always the legal father of any child conceived, irrespective of what the parents agree or what is recorded on the birth certificate.’ However, if recipients go through a Human Fertilization and Embryology Authority (HFEA) licenced fertility clinic, legislation states that the donor is completely absolved of any parental or financial obligations. This route also ensures thorough STD and health screenings – but it comes with one major drawback: the cost. For a lesbian couple to be offered Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) – treated semen inserted directly into the womb – on the NHS, they must have first undergone six unsuccessful rounds of IUI, costing £1,600 a squirt. Heterosexual couples must try conceiving naturally for two years or have undergone 12 rounds of IUI. Finding a donor online is faster, simpler and the recipient gets to meet the donor – but of course, it comes with its own risks. Since 1 April 2005, people conceived via a sperm, egg or embryo donation thereafter have been legally entitled to access their donor’s information after turning 16, including their physical description and the year and country of their birth. This extends to the donor’s full name and address when the child turns 18. However, the recipient parents are not privy to such information. Michelle, 33, from Chicago, is one of the women taking to Facebook groups to find a sperm donor. She and her wife Klara, 27, consider it vital that their child can contact their donor in the future, and says the biggest challenge has been ‘finding someone we have a connection with and who we can genuinely trust’. Many women have been let down by unscrupulous men who promise to do artificial insemination, then demand to have penetrative sex. The child of adoptive parents who met her biological family as an adult, Michelle’s personal experience means this factor is even more important. ‘It was extremely important for me to know where I came from,’ she explains. ‘The bare minimum we would like is that when our kid is of age that they at least get to reach out and talk to the donor at least once.’ Jessica, 39, from Norfolk, has a four-year-old son Leo, conceived through an online donor. She and her wife Vicky, 42, have recently returned to Facebook in the hopes of finding a donor for a second child. While they would have liked to have used the same donor again, he now lives abroad. ‘We sent him pictures of Leo as a newborn, and have shared a few emails, but ultimately, he’s not a part of our son’s life, which is what we all wanted,’ says Jessica. ‘He’s not his parent, but we wanted Leo to be able to reach out with questions when he’s older, which he was happy with.’ Louise and her wife share this desire, which they discussed with their donor over coffee. They described him as someone who ‘genuinely wanted to help people’, and was how they found themselves in the hotel bar while he masturbated upstairs. The clandestine rendezvous was due to the parties living on different sides of London, but hotels are often favoured as a way of maintaining formality and increasing safety. Like Louise, Michelle says she and her wife will only use AI (artificial insemination), but some recipients are open to NI (natural insemination, also known as penetrative sex). Unsurprisingly, such recipients tend to get mass responses. More: Social Media. Chunkz announces social media hiatus after sharing cryptic tweet. Heroin chic is back and as dangerous as ever. Twitter pauses paid-for verification and reinstates 'Official' labels. Elon Musk tells entire auditorium 'I have too much work on my plate' One frustrated woman wrote: ‘With natural insemination, does anyone else feel like they are just getting hit on in this group?’ A number of men are simply seeking sex and therefore insist exclusively upon NI. Michael, 45, a construction worker, donates solely by AI. ‘Anyone who says they only do NI is just doing it for sex,’ he says.
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Meet the women desperately seeking semen on social media – and the men eagerly volunteering their ‘natural insemination’ services. It’s a Sunday afternoon and Louise, 36, is sat at the bar of a West London hotel waiting for a man she met online. Casting her eyes upwards she finally sees him, striding purposefully towards her table.
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He nods, shyly averting his eyes as he passes Louise the room key, while retrieving something from his pocket that he slips hurriedly into her hand. Finally the man meets her eyes and his face breaking into a satisfied grin. ‘Good luck,’ he utters before turning on his heel to exit the hotel, leaving Louise and her wife with a syringe full of semen. Louise is one of thousands of people desperately seeking semen online. She and her wife Mary, 35, turned to Facebook to find a donor and discovered multiple groups that pair prospective parents with semen suppliers. The profiles are not unlike dating bios, with members sharing their ages, occupations and of course their STD status and fertility credentials. A typical donor post reads: ‘London AI or NI donor, Half English, Spanish. 5’11” dark brown hair. Fortunate to have no health problems. Never smoked or taken drugs. Somehow scored 129 on an IQ test. Recent clean STI check.’ The different acronyms stand for various fertilisation methods. These are Artificial Insemination (syringe/turkey-baster), Partial Natural Insemination (masturbating and climaxing inside the recipient) and Natural Insemination (having penetrative sex). Recipients’ posts tend to be more detailed, including wedding photos, family snaps and information about finances. A typical request from someone seeking sperm says: ‘Hi me and my wife are looking for a donor (no NI please) we don’t drink or smoke we have our own house and both work full time. We would prefer the donor to have absolutely no contact with the child very minimal updates if that’s okay. We will pay for your travel! We welcome all ethnicities. Thank you for looking or considering us!’ While lesbian couples are by far the largest recipient group, there are also plenty of single women and some heterosexual couples struggling to conceive, who take to the group to find the semen they need. ‘New here. Any donors Yorkshire area?,’ one post from a single woman reads. ‘White male (tall if possible lol) new to all this but I’m 25 and single. Very broody. Please pm me so we can sort out what each other’s expectations and wishes are.’ Confirming expectations before proceeding is vital, especially because the legalities surrounding private donations remain obscure. Factors such as the mother’s relationship status and the insemination method could land the donor with legal obligations. Fertility law specialists Natalie Gamble Associates, (NGA) explain: ‘A sperm donor who donates through sexual intercourse (sometimes called “natural insemination”) is always the legal father of any child conceived, irrespective of what the parents agree or what is recorded on the birth certificate.’ However, if recipients go through a Human Fertilization and Embryology Authority (HFEA) licenced fertility clinic, legislation states that the donor is completely absolved of any parental or financial obligations. This route also ensures thorough STD and health screenings – but it comes with one major drawback: the cost. For a lesbian couple to be offered Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) – treated semen inserted directly into the womb – on the NHS, they must have first undergone six unsuccessful rounds of IUI, costing £1,600 a squirt. Heterosexual couples must try conceiving naturally for two years or have undergone 12 rounds of IUI. Finding a donor online is faster, simpler and the recipient gets to meet the donor – but of course, it comes with its own risks. Since 1 April 2005, people conceived via a sperm, egg or embryo donation thereafter have been legally entitled to access their donor’s information after turning 16, including their physical description and the year and country of their birth. This extends to the donor’s full name and address when the child turns 18. However, the recipient parents are not privy to such information. Michelle, 33, from Chicago, is one of the women taking to Facebook groups to find a sperm donor. She and her wife Klara, 27, consider it vital that their child can contact their donor in the future, and says the biggest challenge has been ‘finding someone we have a connection with and who we can genuinely trust’. Many women have been let down by unscrupulous men who promise to do artificial insemination, then demand to have penetrative sex. The child of adoptive parents who met her biological family as an adult, Michelle’s personal experience means this factor is even more important. ‘It was extremely important for me to know where I came from,’ she explains. ‘The bare minimum we would like is that when our kid is of age that they at least get to reach out and talk to the donor at least once.’ Jessica, 39, from Norfolk, has a four-year-old son Leo, conceived through an online donor. She and her wife Vicky, 42, have recently returned to Facebook in the hopes of finding a donor for a second child. While they would have liked to have used the same donor again, he now lives abroad. ‘We sent him pictures of Leo as a newborn, and have shared a few emails, but ultimately, he’s not a part of our son’s life, which is what we all wanted,’ says Jessica. ‘He’s not his parent, but we wanted Leo to be able to reach out with questions when he’s older, which he was happy with.’ Louise and her wife share this desire, which they discussed with their donor over coffee. They described him as someone who ‘genuinely wanted to help people’, and was how they found themselves in the hotel bar while he masturbated upstairs. The clandestine rendezvous was due to the parties living on different sides of London, but hotels are often favoured as a way of maintaining formality and increasing safety. Like Louise, Michelle says she and her wife will only use AI (artificial insemination), but some recipients are open to NI (natural insemination, also known as penetrative sex). Unsurprisingly, such recipients tend to get mass responses. More: Social Media. Chunkz announces social media hiatus after sharing cryptic tweet. Heroin chic is back and as dangerous as ever. Twitter pauses paid-for verification and reinstates 'Official' labels. Elon Musk tells entire auditorium 'I have too much work on my plate' One frustrated woman wrote: ‘With natural insemination, does anyone else feel like they are just getting hit on in this group?’ A number of men are simply seeking sex and therefore insist exclusively upon NI. Michael, 45, a construction worker, donates solely by AI. ‘Anyone who says they only do NI is just doing it for sex,’ he says.
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