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The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 1) One cold winter morning, Felesha Fox came running alongside her friend, Frances Fox. “Hahaha, look at all these male foxes chasing after me, Frances! There’s about 10 of them!” Frances, looking a little embarrassed and scared, turned around to see 10 male foxes or more, chasing her friend Felesha Fox. “Why don’t you have even one dashing lad chasing you down, like me?” “My dear friend Felesha, you are mistaken, I do have one dashing lad chasing me. He’s at home right now.” “Pffff. Just one fox? Don’t you want lots of them around you? Look at you! You are as thin as anything, and you look exhausted! It’s winter time, you need the backup of young lads and you’re a young fox with your youth and beauty going for you. You see, each one of these lads brings me small gifts of food…but you speak only of your little Fred Fox at home.” Felesha Fox giggled some more. Throwing her head high in the air and chortling, Felesha sped along, her tummy rounded and fat, her legs strong and healthy and left Frances behind. Frances turned her weary head around to see the other 10 male foxes speeding up to reach Felesha’s heels. Winter gave way to spring and then summer. As it does, winter eventually came around again. Felesha had been busy with lots of different male foxes, and Frances stayed strong and steady with Fred, hunting together slowly to gather the food and information they needed to survive another winter. Although they had endured tough times together, they had just enough to survive another winter. Halfway through the winter, Felesha and Frances crossed paths again. Frances was shocked. “What has happened?!” she asked Felesha, who was so skinny that her bones showed through her beautiful red fur. “Your fur is covered in spots, and you look ill!” “Oh, I’m very sick, Frances.” “Why don’t you call one of your males for help?” “I have. They all left me a while ago. I am now alone. I have not seen or heard from one of them! They are buggers.” “Oh.” Said Frances. “Why, look at you, Frances, all fat and plump, with that spring in your step!” Felesha said, looking resentful. Frances looked down, not knowing what to say. “Yes…Fred and I, we worked hard together and last winter we didn’t have much, but I think we have just enough to last this winter the whole way through!” She said, holding her head high and proud. With that, they parted ways. At the end of the winter, Fred and Frances were about to marry…they planned to raise a big family together. With that exciting news, Frances couldn’t wait to tell Felesha and ran all around town looking for her. She went everywhere to find her longtime friend, but she was nowhere to be seen. Until a stranger walking by asked Frances: “Are you looking for something?” “Yes! I am looking for young Felesha, do you know her?” “Oh yes. She died a few days ago. She was very sick and alone, and it got the better of her, poor girl.” (What Is The One Specific Emotional Trigger Within Every Single Man in this World That Inspires Him to WANT to Commit to One Woman, Want to Take Care of Her, Worship Her and Only Her? Click here to find out right now…) Table of Contents. Invest Deeply In ONE Man And Reap Long Term Benefits… Invest deeply in one man, and reap long-term benefits. Invest partially in several men and reap short-term benefits, but risk ending up without the thing your heart truly desires. Here is PART 2 of The Secret Cost For Women When They Have Casual Sex. The key here is emotional investment and vulnerability. There’s nothing wrong with engaging in casual sex, but for most women who do it, it can have a grave cost that is too painful for them to speak about. If Men Can Do It, Women Can Do It, Too! Why are many people encouraging women to have casual partners these days? If men can do it, then we should be able to as well. To hell with the double standard! First of all, casual sex is not new. Women have been doing it for centuries. It is one mating strategy. That’s it, it’s just a mating strategy. It is a mating strategy that gets a bit of flack, because women engaging in indiscriminate sex, or even casual sex, interfere with other loyal women’s mating strategies. That is to say that women who risk time and emotional vulnerability with one man long term, don’t like the threat that women who are willing to have sex without emotional attachment pose to them. Casual sex just seems to be gaining more widespread social acceptance, with the cry for sexism to stop, the cry for judgement to stop, and for equality to prevail. Casual sex is an ancient mating strategy. But the fact that it is ancient doesn’t mean that it does not have its serious potential costs for women and men. But Can Some Women Tolerate Casual Sex? There is a small percentage of women out there who can truly have casual sex, and see the man leave afterwards (without investing emotionally in her). They can see this happen and not suffer anguish, pain and regret over the casual sex. Predictably, women are less likely to regret pursuing casual sex encounters if they initiated the encounter themselves. I suspect (and I could be wrong) that the women who do this are women who truly have zero emotional attachment to the sex partner they had, and they were also using their casual partner to get their rocks off. If a woman has purely casual sex for any other reason than getting her rocks off, say, because she enjoys feeling desired, she is possibly about to see her strategy backfire on her. Because men don’t always reciprocate a woman’s reasons for having sex – they don’t always have sex because they desire the woman. Researchers have explained that women experience greater feelings of love and commitment following first time sex than men do. In fact, men can keep you around for years to have sex with you, and never, ever commit. And men’s interpretation of ‘desire’ for women differs from women’s interpretation of men’s desire for them. In search of feeling desired, often, women find themselves left by the man the next morning. They are left footing a huge emotional cost in the name of fulfilling the hole where they wanted to feel desired. Casual sex is different to short-term sexual relationships. Casual sex (e.g. a one night stand OR a courtship where the man has zero investment in the woman) is the area in which I’m focusing on in this article.
Article about women seeking men for casual sex:
Together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog , they have positively influenced the lives of over 15 million women through their free articles and videos as well as 10’,s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform. Connect deeper with her work through the social media links below.
>>> GO TO SITE <<<
The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 1) One cold winter morning, Felesha Fox came running alongside her friend, Frances Fox. “Hahaha, look at all these male foxes chasing after me, Frances! There’s about 10 of them!” Frances, looking a little embarrassed and scared, turned around to see 10 male foxes or more, chasing her friend Felesha Fox. “Why don’t you have even one dashing lad chasing you down, like me?” “My dear friend Felesha, you are mistaken, I do have one dashing lad chasing me. He’s at home right now.” “Pffff. Just one fox? Don’t you want lots of them around you? Look at you! You are as thin as anything, and you look exhausted! It’s winter time, you need the backup of young lads and you’re a young fox with your youth and beauty going for you. You see, each one of these lads brings me small gifts of food…but you speak only of your little Fred Fox at home.” Felesha Fox giggled some more. Throwing her head high in the air and chortling, Felesha sped along, her tummy rounded and fat, her legs strong and healthy and left Frances behind. Frances turned her weary head around to see the other 10 male foxes speeding up to reach Felesha’s heels. Winter gave way to spring and then summer. As it does, winter eventually came around again. Felesha had been busy with lots of different male foxes, and Frances stayed strong and steady with Fred, hunting together slowly to gather the food and information they needed to survive another winter. Although they had endured tough times together, they had just enough to survive another winter. Halfway through the winter, Felesha and Frances crossed paths again. Frances was shocked. “What has happened?!” she asked Felesha, who was so skinny that her bones showed through her beautiful red fur. “Your fur is covered in spots, and you look ill!” “Oh, I’m very sick, Frances.” “Why don’t you call one of your males for help?” “I have. They all left me a while ago. I am now alone. I have not seen or heard from one of them! They are buggers.” “Oh.” Said Frances. “Why, look at you, Frances, all fat and plump, with that spring in your step!” Felesha said, looking resentful. Frances looked down, not knowing what to say. “Yes…Fred and I, we worked hard together and last winter we didn’t have much, but I think we have just enough to last this winter the whole way through!” She said, holding her head high and proud. With that, they parted ways. At the end of the winter, Fred and Frances were about to marry…they planned to raise a big family together. With that exciting news, Frances couldn’t wait to tell Felesha and ran all around town looking for her. She went everywhere to find her longtime friend, but she was nowhere to be seen. Until a stranger walking by asked Frances: “Are you looking for something?” “Yes! I am looking for young Felesha, do you know her?” “Oh yes. She died a few days ago. She was very sick and alone, and it got the better of her, poor girl.” (What Is The One Specific Emotional Trigger Within Every Single Man in this World That Inspires Him to WANT to Commit to One Woman, Want to Take Care of Her, Worship Her and Only Her? Click here to find out right now…) Table of Contents. Invest Deeply In ONE Man And Reap Long Term Benefits… Invest deeply in one man, and reap long-term benefits. Invest partially in several men and reap short-term benefits, but risk ending up without the thing your heart truly desires. Here is PART 2 of The Secret Cost For Women When They Have Casual Sex. The key here is emotional investment and vulnerability. There’s nothing wrong with engaging in casual sex, but for most women who do it, it can have a grave cost that is too painful for them to speak about. If Men Can Do It, Women Can Do It, Too! Why are many people encouraging women to have casual partners these days? If men can do it, then we should be able to as well. To hell with the double standard! First of all, casual sex is not new. Women have been doing it for centuries. It is one mating strategy. That’s it, it’s just a mating strategy. It is a mating strategy that gets a bit of flack, because women engaging in indiscriminate sex, or even casual sex, interfere with other loyal women’s mating strategies. That is to say that women who risk time and emotional vulnerability with one man long term, don’t like the threat that women who are willing to have sex without emotional attachment pose to them. Casual sex just seems to be gaining more widespread social acceptance, with the cry for sexism to stop, the cry for judgement to stop, and for equality to prevail. Casual sex is an ancient mating strategy. But the fact that it is ancient doesn’t mean that it does not have its serious potential costs for women and men. But Can Some Women Tolerate Casual Sex? There is a small percentage of women out there who can truly have casual sex, and see the man leave afterwards (without investing emotionally in her). They can see this happen and not suffer anguish, pain and regret over the casual sex. Predictably, women are less likely to regret pursuing casual sex encounters if they initiated the encounter themselves. I suspect (and I could be wrong) that the women who do this are women who truly have zero emotional attachment to the sex partner they had, and they were also using their casual partner to get their rocks off. If a woman has purely casual sex for any other reason than getting her rocks off, say, because she enjoys feeling desired, she is possibly about to see her strategy backfire on her. Because men don’t always reciprocate a woman’s reasons for having sex – they don’t always have sex because they desire the woman. Researchers have explained that women experience greater feelings of love and commitment following first time sex than men do. In fact, men can keep you around for years to have sex with you, and never, ever commit. And men’s interpretation of ‘desire’ for women differs from women’s interpretation of men’s desire for them. In search of feeling desired, often, women find themselves left by the man the next morning. They are left footing a huge emotional cost in the name of fulfilling the hole where they wanted to feel desired. Casual sex is different to short-term sexual relationships. Casual sex (e.g. a one night stand OR a courtship where the man has zero investment in the woman) is the area in which I’m focusing on in this article.