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Where to meet guys in their 40s - franklinkelsey5 - 25-11-2025
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Dating Through The Decades
How to Date In Your 20s, 30s, 40s. The single scene today is definitely different from the days when our mothers and grandmothers “courted.” Real women of every age share their thoughts on dating in 2009, and Lisa Altalida, author of “Dating Boot Camp” (Alpha) and certified life coach, weighs in. Name: Krystle Carter Age: 25 Occupation: Graduate Student, University of Baltimore Hometown: Albany, New York.
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The Real Deal on Dating: “I’ve had luck meeting guys at happy hour, coffee shops or the campus center. I am friendly and start small talk. Once, there was an incredibly long line in Starbucks. A guy I’d seen several times there was at the front of the line. He noticed me and turned and said, ‘Green tea, right?’ He ordered my drink and it was the start of a great conversation. Having fun and lots of laughter are key. I’ve learned that your instincts come from God. If it doesn’t feel right, it isn’t.” Courtesy of Subject. Name: Maria James Occupation: Marketing & Public Relations Assistant Age: 27 Hometown: Virginia Beach, Virginia. “Honestly, if it weren’t for Web sites I don’t know if I’d even date or talk to men. When you’re working and going to school you become isolated and my community has few Black men. I want someone who’s actively pursuing their goals and is truly looking for that woman from God to spend his life with. I’m in my late 20s now, and from 20 up until now dating meant meeting, going out, sleeping together and then maybe talking again by phone. I’ve learned that once you open the door sexually that’s really all the relationship becomes. Now that I’m older and I’m living a life for the Lord, I’m learning that I have more to offer than just my body. Now I feel like my standards are higher.” Courtesy of Subject. Lisa’s Lowdown. For dating in your 20s, the Dating Boot Camp General says: “These are the transition times from college to real life. It is key not to lose those networks from college, when you were around a lot of great guys. Get involved in your college’s alumni chapter and other organizations. Also, use social networking. Men in their 20s are dating different people and the women should do the same. And if you do decide to sleep with a guy, do it only because you want to and remember it doesn’t mean you are in a relationship. Start thinking of what you want in a mate but continue to just get out and date. Many women do end up with someone they met during this time, so keep your eyes open and live it up.” Name: Lela Jefferson Occupation: New Media Marketing and PR Professional (currently seeking new employment) Age: 30 Hometown: Brooklyn. Where have you had the most luck meeting men? Church. What are you looking for in dating? Happiness, companionship, common interests and beliefs and permanency. The Real Deal on Dating: “I am once again in the dating market after being in a long-term relationship. I tend to meet guys at church and other civic events. However, it seems as if they are too shy to speak to me, and the ones that do get my senses tingling, warning me, “PLAYA, run away!” Many straight good men feel that because they are in high demand that they do not need to treat a woman like a lady. I am celibate and if a man cannot respect that, he is not the one for me. Sex should not be a bargaining tool to get a ‘good’ man.” Courtesy of Subject. Name: Nerissa Golden Age: 35 Occupation: Writer Hometown: St. Maarten, Netherlands Antilles. The Real Deal on Dating: “I was married for six years and it was quite a shocker now that I am divorced to see how assertive women are. I meet the best men just being me and going to places I enjoy, rather than going out of my way to try to meet guys. I have always been comfortable speaking to men. Caribbean people tend to flirt quite openly. But I still prefer men making the move. In fact, it’s necessary that they do. I like to see how persistent they are going to be, so more than likely they get rebuffed the first or second time.” Courtesy of Subject. Name: Krys Morris Age: 39 Occupation: Health care Consultant/Professor Hometown: Atlanta. The Real Deal on Dating: “The dating scene has changed significantly in that it requires far more pre-screening, background checking, and personal referencing just to have a fair chance that he’s not a waste of time. After clarifying my ‘must-haves’ and viewing hundreds of guys via online dating, I’ve finally met “The One.” We’ve even been asked to do a commercial for an online dating site! Yes, dating methods have changed, but it’s no less exciting!” Courtesy of Subject. Lisa’s Lowdown. For dating in your 30s, the Dating Boot Camp General says: “This is when a relationship must become a goal if that is what you want. You are out of your social network, so you have to make active plans and get out.