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[Hot] How can i meet a good man 2025 - franklinkelsey5 - 25-11-2025
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6 Excuses That Are Holding You Back From Finding a Good Man. It’s easy to find a multitude of excuses as to why we can’t find a decent man and so maybe we should just give up. You might have come to the conclusion that actually you’re better off on your own.
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You’re far too busy to incorporate a man into your life, you have to concentrate on your kids, or you never come into contact with decent men anyway. The whole thing seems too risky and a waste of time. Well I’m here to debunk all these excuses and remind you that you really do want to find a happy relationship with a guy who’s right for you. I repeat - one who’s RIGHT FOR YOU! The right guy will enhance your life in lots of different ways. So now, I’m going to take down some of the most common excuses I hear from women I work with as to why they’re not getting on with the job of finding the right man and I’ll show you how you can turn things around. 1. There are no decent men out there. It’s easy to feel there are no decent guys – because we just don’t see decent guys anywhere. We don’t come into contact with them, so we don’t believe they exist. But I’ve got news for you – there really ARE good men out there, but we don’t notice them because the ones who approach us, the ones who get in our face – whether that’s online or in real life – tend to be the players, the super-confident ones who are well practiced with women and don’t care that much what other people think. The nice guys, the men who would make good relationship material – they might not be quite so confident, they DO care what people think and they’re more respectful. So for those reasons, they’re less likely to approach you. It’s not that they don’t want to talk to you – they’re more concerned that you might not want to talk to them. It’s time then to make yourself more approachable to the good guys. So if you’re in a café, or a bar, or an event. (a) Make yourself available to talk to - get off your phone - arrive early - don’t always go out in a group. Have a wing woman who knows to hang back where appropriate. (b) Get near him Stand next to him at the bar, choose a table next to his – might sound obvious but you need to be bold and take any chances available if you don’t want to miss opportunities. © Make eye contact If you catch his eye you might automatically feel the need to immediately look away. That doesn’t show much interest and you need to make it pretty obvious to a good guy that you’re interested before he gets it. When you make eye contact with him, hold that eye contact for a little bit longer than is necessary or normal – he should get a bit of a hint. Especially if you do it again. And smile – there’s nothing as inviting. But of course you don’t have to wait for him to speak to you. We’re modern women – we can speak to men! I know it’s not exactly a revolutionary idea but a lot of women do see it as the job of the man to make the first move. So speak to him! 2. I’m too fat. Or too thin, or too tall… whatever. Ok this is no excuse! We tend to have a very narrow idea of what is physically attractive, and research suggests that that’s because of what gets served up to us in the media. But in the real world, men vary hugely in what sort of look or body type they’re into and this comes down to their personalities, their own experience of the world and people, their own body size, their age, how tough their environment is. The truth is, everyone likes different things, and whether you’re a big, voluptuous lady, or a wee skinny malink – there are a bunch of guys who are well into you! Maybe you’re not so concerned about your body type but you worry that you’re too nerdy, or too hippyish, or too much of a fitness fanatic. Well I’m here to tell you you don’t need to worry about that, because research shows us that these unique qualities, your quirks, your idiosynchracies – these things are far more important in being attractive to the guys who are into you. Sure, if you’re super-intellectual and love to spend your time discussing philosophy – yeah you’re going to put a lot of guys off. But who cares. You don’t want them. For the men who are into your type of thing – they’ll be REALLY impressed. So don’t hide yourself – be proud of who you are, and the right guys will love you for it! 3. I haven’t got time for a man. Women often say to me, “I’d love a partner but I’m so busy - I just don’t know how I would fit them into my life!” Maybe you feel like this. Perhaps you’re looking after an elderly parent as well as being up to your ears with work, or you want to prioritise your time for your kids. Having a romantic relationship on top of all that can be incredibly draining IF you’re with a guy who keeps you on an emotional rollercoaster, one who doesn’t support you. But if you’re with the right kind of guy – he’s going to have your back, he’ll HELP you, he’ll give you more time! I’m speaking from experience here. I’ve had the difficult relationships – the ones that leave you emotionally exhausted. But having changed my search criteria and found a really good guy (who’s now my lovely husband) I now know that a good relationship creates energy. A secure, caring man will support you with your challenges, he’ll have your back. If you find a guy with the traits needed for a high-quality relationship (and I can show you how) you won’t need to choose between your man and your projects, or your kids – he’ll be on your side, helping you every step of the way. 4. Men prefer dumb women. Well actually, you’re right. Some men DO prefer dumb women. But I strongly suspect these men are not the ones you want.
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